It seems to me that more effort is put into focusing on the problem these days and not enough effort into the solution.
Couples, friends and family argue over what happened instead of discussing how they are going to overcome it. So much energy is wasted on anger. It doesn’t get us anywhere and anger leads us to say and do things that add to the situation.
Whenever I get in a situation that can turn into an argument, I always ask myself, “am I focusing on the solution?” It is good to know the root of the problem, but to move forward the focus has to lye in solution.
May your week be filled with solutions.
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